Is she pregnant?
Unexpected pregnancy is overwhelming for everyone involved, including men. Women tend to seek support from their partners upon discovering they are pregnant, which means you have an important role to play.
How can we know for sure?
We offer free pre-abortion screening services. This service is available to determine whether she really is pregnant, and they will give you the information you need to make the decision that’s best for both of you.
What should I do?
It is perfectly normal to worry and feel uncertain about what comes next. Your partner is likely feeling just as anxious as you are. You have a role to play in this process, and it’s important that you’re there to support and encourage her at this time. The most valuable next step you can take is to listen to how she feels and honestly express how you feel. Open, honest communication will ensure that both of you are understood as you take steps toward a decision.
That does not mean things won’t be uncomfortable at times. Unexpected pregnancy is a difficult circumstance to face for anyone. There will be discomfort down the line, especially as you tell friends and family and work toward a decision together.
Is there someone I can talk to?
We have men who can discuss your concerns, as well as help you understand your role in the decision-making process. Your thoughts and opinions matter, and if you aren’t sure how or whether you can express them, we can help.
We offer a number of resources for men and their partners as they face an unexpected pregnancy. Contact us today for more information on how we can serve you at this time.